Saturday, October 10, 2009 What is a friend? What is a friend? A single soul, dwelling in two bodies" True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure. Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal. Different people have different definitions of friendship. For some, it is the trust in an individual that he / she won't hurt you. For others, it is unconditional love. There are some who feel that friendship is companionship. People form definitions based on the kind of experiences they have had. This is one relation that has been nurtured since time immemorial. There are famous stories about friends in mythologies of different religions all over the world. They say a person who has found a faithful friend has found a priceless treasure. Psychologically speaking, friendship may be defined as 'a dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. As children become friends, they negotiate boundaries within which both partners function'. This helps them to function like healthy individuals in life as they learn to draw a line as and when needed in a relation. This greatly helps in the emotional development of an individual. However, any relation needs constant nurturing and development from all the people that are involved in one. Friendship cannot survive if one person makes all the effort to sustain it without any mutual recognition from others. Since friendship starts the moment a child starts socializing, the kind of friends that the child chooses should be taken care of till the time he / she learns to differentiate between right and wrong. Wrong peers or lack of socializing can lead to severe psychological traumas and disorders, finally leading to social maladjustment. The correct peer group is essential for the development of the personality of a child. Both positive and negative experiences refine the personality of the individual. Thus it is essential that you find friends who are compatible with you on an emotional and psychological basis. Friendship poems The One Best Friend Thanks for being there for me, through good times and bad times. I will be on your side even if the the world ends. When the world is going, I will be here, now and until the end. Your my very best friend. The one that I look up to. The one that I run to, when I have a problem. The one that I talk to. Your the one best friend that was always there for me. I wanna thank you for all the things you gave and showed me. Forever Friends Friends we are, forever friends we’ll be, Wherever we are, you’re right beside me. I hope we stay friends ’til the end of time, And whenever that is, our friendship will still shine. You mean the world to me, I hope the same with you, You’re always helping me, whatever it takes you’ll do. Now that we’re growing older, changing our ways, I know we won’t lose our friendship- I hope I never see that day. So to every one of my friends, you mean the world to me, Friends we are, forever friends we’ll be For Magic. Click here Older Posts Newer Posts 0 Left Blogprints: Post a Comment

Memories Flash Back Pictures of Hubby, Pictures of me. A man can love a million girls. ♥ But only a REAL MAN can love ONE GIRL in a million ways.♥ ◄ ► Misc Please help to click The Owner The Mistress Shi Yin 07th May 1987 @ Muar Hospital (Malaysia) Siling Primary School Changkat Changi Secondary School ITE College East (Simei) SIPMM The Important Day The Mister Jason Seet 25th April 1990 Taurus Stamford Primary School Macpherson Secondary School ` ITE College Central (Tampines) Our 1st Lovely Baby 薛可恩 30th July 2008 Weigh 2.840KG Natural birth with Epidural Gestation Duration : 39 weeks 1 day KK Women's & Children's Hospital Carpe Diem Child Care Center Our 2nd Lovely Baby 薛瑞恩 2nd June 2012 Weigh 3.184KG Natural birth with Epidural Gestation Duration : 38 weeks 4 day KK Women's & Children's Hospital Carpe Diem Child Care Center Say You Love Me Please Tag Before you leave. Calender ♥ OF year 2014 01-01-2014 - New Year of 2014 30-01-2014 - Eve of CNY 31-01-2014 - CNY Day 1 01-02-2014 - CNY Day 2 30-01-2014 - Elvin Birthday 14-02-2014 - Valentine Day 18-04-2014 - Good Friday 25-04-2014 - Hubby Birthday 01-05-2014 - Labour Day 13-05-2014 - Vesak Day 07-05-2014 - My Birthday 10-05-2012 - Mother's Day 13-05-2014 - Mei Zhen Birthday 13-06-2014 - Rui'En Birthday 13-06-2014 - Shi Tien Birthday 21-06-2014 - Father's Day 24-07-2014 - Married for 6 years 27-07-2014 - Shi Wee Birthday 25-07-2014 - Hari Raya Puasa 30-07-2014 - Caen Birthday 09-08-2014 - National Day 05-10-2014 - Hari Raya Haji 23-10-2014 - Deepavali 30-10-2014 - Shila Birthday 13-12-2014 - Mum Birthday 25-12-2014 - Christmas Day 31-12-2014 - New Year Eve Yearns ♥ ♥ Please grant my wishes ✖ To have a driving license ✖ To buy a car ✖ Another Taiwan Trip ✖ PARIS ✖ To complete my Diploma ✖ Holiday Trip to Bangkok ✖ Have a new Pink Laptop ✖ To give Caen & Rui'en a better life Caen & Rui'En ♥ ♥ Wishes to be granted ❤ Her own room ☑ 2nd Birthday Celebration ☑ First trip via plane ❤ More pretty shoes for her ❤ Open a saving account for her Thief of My Heart Carpe Diem Andy Christ Esther Eugene Hui Han Hui Yu Joanne Kel & Wendi Mr Neo Serene Xiao Hui Yi Ting ♥ The Young Mummies THEY STOLE THE CHILD'S HEART Adonica Ai Lin Aalice Apple Toh Casan Casse Celest Crystal Eelin Eelyn Eileen Emeline Esther Chua Esther Etrini Fannie Grace Hui Yin Jacqueline Jasmine Jia Hui Joanne Josephine Joyce Juann Karen Katie Lili Lisa MabeLine Mandy Margaret Michelle Mitchie Peri Xian Phoebe Sally Sandy Sande Selicia Stacey Ng Stacey Suzhen Valerie Violin Xue Yin Yan Ting Yi Ling Yi Xuan Yukiko The recent Beautiful Memories Another Tekong Trip I've got a lovely Hubby Mid Autumn Festival~ Tampines - Boon Lay Happy 14th Month to Caen HOPE Scheme Buffet at 重庆真宗麻辣火锅 #86 Family Day #84 Reminiscence A BLAST TO THE PAST CLICK 12/14/08 - 12/21/08 12/21/08 - 12/28/08 1/4/09 - 1/11/09 1/11/09 - 1/18/09 2/1/09 - 2/8/09 2/15/09 - 2/22/09 2/22/09 - 3/1/09 3/1/09 - 3/8/09 3/15/09 - 3/22/09 3/22/09 - 3/29/09 4/5/09 - 4/12/09 4/12/09 - 4/19/09 4/19/09 - 4/26/09 5/3/09 - 5/10/09 5/17/09 - 5/24/09 5/24/09 - 5/31/09 6/7/09 - 6/14/09 6/14/09 - 6/21/09 6/21/09 - 6/28/09 6/28/09 - 7/5/09 7/5/09 - 7/12/09 7/12/09 - 7/19/09 7/19/09 - 7/26/09 7/26/09 - 8/2/09 8/2/09 - 8/9/09 8/9/09 - 8/16/09 8/16/09 - 8/23/09 8/23/09 - 8/30/09 8/30/09 - 9/6/09 9/6/09 - 9/13/09 9/13/09 - 9/20/09 9/20/09 - 9/27/09 9/27/09 - 10/4/09 10/4/09 - 10/11/09 10/11/09 - 10/18/09 10/18/09 - 10/25/09 10/25/09 - 11/1/09 11/1/09 - 11/8/09 11/8/09 - 11/15/09 11/15/09 - 11/22/09 11/29/09 - 12/6/09 12/6/09 - 12/13/09 12/13/09 - 12/20/09 12/20/09 - 12/27/09 12/27/09 - 1/3/10 1/3/10 - 1/10/10 1/10/10 - 1/17/10 1/17/10 - 1/24/10 1/24/10 - 1/31/10 1/31/10 - 2/7/10 2/7/10 - 2/14/10 2/14/10 - 2/21/10 2/21/10 - 2/28/10 2/28/10 - 3/7/10 3/7/10 - 3/14/10 3/14/10 - 3/21/10 3/21/10 - 3/28/10 3/28/10 - 4/4/10 4/4/10 - 4/11/10 4/11/10 - 4/18/10 4/18/10 - 4/25/10 4/25/10 - 5/2/10 5/2/10 - 5/9/10 5/9/10 - 5/16/10 5/16/10 - 5/23/10 5/23/10 - 5/30/10 5/30/10 - 6/6/10 6/6/10 - 6/13/10 6/13/10 - 6/20/10 6/20/10 - 6/27/10 6/27/10 - 7/4/10 7/4/10 - 7/11/10 7/11/10 - 7/18/10 7/18/10 - 7/25/10 7/25/10 - 8/1/10 8/1/10 - 8/8/10 8/8/10 - 8/15/10 8/22/10 - 8/29/10 8/29/10 - 9/5/10 9/12/10 - 9/19/10 9/19/10 - 9/26/10 9/26/10 - 10/3/10 10/3/10 - 10/10/10 10/10/10 - 10/17/10 10/24/10 - 10/31/10 10/31/10 - 11/7/10 11/7/10 - 11/14/10 11/14/10 - 11/21/10 11/21/10 - 11/28/10 11/28/10 - 12/5/10 12/5/10 - 12/12/10 12/12/10 - 12/19/10 12/19/10 - 12/26/10 12/26/10 - 1/2/11 1/2/11 - 1/9/11 1/9/11 - 1/16/11 1/16/11 - 1/23/11 1/23/11 - 1/30/11 1/30/11 - 2/6/11 2/6/11 - 2/13/11 2/13/11 - 2/20/11 2/20/11 - 2/27/11 2/27/11 - 3/6/11 3/6/11 - 3/13/11 3/20/11 - 3/27/11 3/27/11 - 4/3/11 4/3/11 - 4/10/11 4/10/11 - 4/17/11 4/17/11 - 4/24/11 4/24/11 - 5/1/11 5/1/11 - 5/8/11 5/8/11 - 5/15/11 5/15/11 - 5/22/11 5/22/11 - 5/29/11 5/29/11 - 6/5/11 6/5/11 - 6/12/11 6/19/11 - 6/26/11 7/10/11 - 7/17/11 7/17/11 - 7/24/11 7/24/11 - 7/31/11 7/31/11 - 8/7/11 8/7/11 - 8/14/11 8/14/11 - 8/21/11 8/21/11 - 8/28/11 8/28/11 - 9/4/11 9/4/11 - 9/11/11 9/18/11 - 9/25/11 9/25/11 - 10/2/11 2/12/12 - 2/19/12 9/30/12 - 10/7/12 4/7/13 - 4/14/13 "> The Heavy Traffic Flows Lijit Search