Wednesday, October 14, 2009 What is True Love? What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming rue. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said �Love all� Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy. In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. For Magic. Click here Older Posts Newer Posts 0 Left Blogprints: Post a Comment

Memories Flash Back Pictures of Hubby, Pictures of me. A man can love a million girls. ♥ But only a REAL MAN can love ONE GIRL in a million ways.♥ ◄ ► Misc Please help to click The Owner The Mistress Shi Yin 07th May 1987 @ Muar Hospital (Malaysia) Siling Primary School Changkat Changi Secondary School ITE College East (Simei) SIPMM The Important Day The Mister Jason Seet 25th April 1990 Taurus Stamford Primary School Macpherson Secondary School ` ITE College Central (Tampines) Our 1st Lovely Baby 薛可恩 30th July 2008 Weigh 2.840KG Natural birth with Epidural Gestation Duration : 39 weeks 1 day KK Women's & Children's Hospital Carpe Diem Child Care Center Our 2nd Lovely Baby 薛瑞恩 2nd June 2012 Weigh 3.184KG Natural birth with Epidural Gestation Duration : 38 weeks 4 day KK Women's & Children's Hospital Carpe Diem Child Care Center Say You Love Me Please Tag Before you leave. Calender ♥ OF year 2014 01-01-2014 - New Year of 2014 30-01-2014 - Eve of CNY 31-01-2014 - CNY Day 1 01-02-2014 - CNY Day 2 30-01-2014 - Elvin Birthday 14-02-2014 - Valentine Day 18-04-2014 - Good Friday 25-04-2014 - Hubby Birthday 01-05-2014 - Labour Day 13-05-2014 - Vesak Day 07-05-2014 - My Birthday 10-05-2012 - Mother's Day 13-05-2014 - Mei Zhen Birthday 13-06-2014 - Rui'En Birthday 13-06-2014 - Shi Tien Birthday 21-06-2014 - Father's Day 24-07-2014 - Married for 6 years 27-07-2014 - Shi Wee Birthday 25-07-2014 - Hari Raya Puasa 30-07-2014 - Caen Birthday 09-08-2014 - National Day 05-10-2014 - Hari Raya Haji 23-10-2014 - Deepavali 30-10-2014 - Shila Birthday 13-12-2014 - Mum Birthday 25-12-2014 - Christmas Day 31-12-2014 - New Year Eve Yearns ♥ ♥ Please grant my wishes ✖ To have a driving license ✖ To buy a car ✖ Another Taiwan Trip ✖ PARIS ✖ To complete my Diploma ✖ Holiday Trip to Bangkok ✖ Have a new Pink Laptop ✖ To give Caen & Rui'en a better life Caen & Rui'En ♥ ♥ Wishes to be granted ❤ Her own room ☑ 2nd Birthday Celebration ☑ First trip via plane ❤ More pretty shoes for her ❤ Open a saving account for her Thief of My Heart Carpe Diem Andy Christ Esther Eugene Hui Han Hui Yu Joanne Kel & Wendi Mr Neo Serene Xiao Hui Yi Ting ♥ The Young Mummies THEY STOLE THE CHILD'S HEART Adonica Ai Lin Aalice Apple Toh Casan Casse Celest Crystal Eelin Eelyn Eileen Emeline Esther Chua Esther Etrini Fannie Grace Hui Yin Jacqueline Jasmine Jia Hui Joanne Josephine Joyce Juann Karen Katie Lili Lisa MabeLine Mandy Margaret Michelle Mitchie Peri Xian Phoebe Sally Sandy Sande Selicia Stacey Ng Stacey Suzhen Valerie Violin Xue Yin Yan Ting Yi Ling Yi Xuan Yukiko The recent Beautiful Memories 麻辣火锅 Buffet again #95 What is a friend? 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